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Some thoughts. They ramble and stray.

Pretty much everyone with an LJ has already linked to The Darth Side, but I want to take a moment to sing its praises. It's really just dazzling. Made me cry like a baby. Made me laugh out loud. Made my skin tingle. If you're one of those people who believes there's no such thing as good fanfic, you need look no further to be proved wrong:

"The Force has shaped this life of mine, from birth to this holy now."

Incidentally, here is an interesting interview with the creator. He has tremendous, spicy brains.

A little known fact: quite a few fanfic writers are also published authors in their own right. Seems like professional writers like to play in other writers' sandboxes from time to time as a sort of exercise or recreation. I am currently reading a novel by one of my favorite SG-1 slash writers. I have to confess a fear I'm having about that: her main female character describes a sort of a dislike for women. And she herself is (so far, anyway) not very likable. And I'm beginning to wonder if this might reflect a touch of misogyny in the author herself.

Sigh. I spend all this time arguing how slashers are not woman- haters, and are not perpetuating sexism in fandom. I'd really hate to have to eat my words.

I'm so weary of woman-hating-women. It's infuriating when you're having a nice conversation, and some woman perks up with the old "I really don't like women, because they're so catty and insincere" routine. She will then go on to explain how she's always been much more comfortable with men, and has hardly ever had any close friendships with women, thereby endearing herself to any men that happen to be standing around. It's as if they feel they need to affiliate themselves with the group in power by distancing themselves from their own femaleness. Like Stockholm Syndrome.

I certainly have gone rather far a field from praising The Darth Side. Well, it's my LJ. If you don't want to hear me bitch, go read the funny, angsty thing.

Comments

fenriss
May. 23rd, 2005 11:17 pm (UTC)
Aw, sweetie. I am touched and humbled.

Let me hasten to point out that I don't hate the women who have that attitude or anything. I can see the little grains of truth that lead them to such conclusions. After all, society has taught women well the lesson that the only way they can get what they want is to be passive aggressive and manipulative, and we are only lately unlearning that. So people can be forgiven for thinking that women tend to be passive aggressive and manipulative, you know?

Anyway, I'm really delighted if I've been any kind of positive influence. Your friendship has been a real boon to me, too, and I love you and Chad lots!
boadiccea
May. 23rd, 2005 11:24 pm (UTC)
We love you and Eric lots, too!

And yes, you're very right about our societal conditioning and how we draw our conclusions. I hope we the human race continue to unlearn those lessons. :)
minniethemoocha
May. 24th, 2005 05:19 am (UTC)
I remember once reading [somewhere, don't remember], "Lies are the province of women and slaves." The upshot was this: someone who approaches life from a position of enforced ignorance and powerlessness is not to be trusted, because they assume the need to get what they want by stunted and backhanded means. While it is no longer quite accurate to say that the women we meet are in that situation, the slave mentality is still encouraged among marginalized groups, generally through media stereotypes that affect the way everyone thinks of that group, and with which the group comes to identify. Misogyny and its internalized form won't go away overnight anymore than racism or homophobia will. I think it's fair to say that women who don't have a background that includes strong options for women may resent and loathe their femaleness and the negative qualities it implies to them and to others.
fenriss
May. 24th, 2005 02:47 pm (UTC)
*nods emphatically*

You know, as is so often the case, I think it comes down to class and privilege. We (you and me) come from backgrounds where education and options for women are assumed and readily available. We're fortunate like that. And at least for me, discovering the whole "loathsome women with slave mentality" thing came as a rude awakening once I was "out in the world". There wasn't much of it in North Arlington when I was a kid.
austingoddess
May. 26th, 2005 02:17 pm (UTC)
It *does* always come back to power and powerlessness, doesn't it? Us enlightened, endquote, folk nowadays don't fear black people, and yet going through a poor black neighborhood at night makes us fearful, besides feel like hypocrites. It really does have nothing to do with race or gender or religion or whatnot, and everything to do with perceptions of people who might express their justified frustration with their position on those in a better place. It won't be truly over untiil the whole power-over, me vs you, competing for resources system of thinking goes away. Slavery never lasts, but it will just swap around places until the system is addressed.
Hope it happens before hell freezes over, but I don't have my hopes up high - humans tend to be pretty dumb until catastrophe forces them to change.

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