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Cheering the fuck up

…but you know, I've been trying to do the Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy thing on myself, and so I'm making those mental lists about "things I really have to feel bad about" vs. "things for which I damn well ought to be grateful." So in that spirit, I present my new icon. *points at icon*.

So I'm shutting up now with the self-pity.

Oh, also… I hear James Spader (the original Daniel, and perennial big-screen pervert) will be on the Daily Show next week. Hurray for the Daily Show! So I've got that goin' for me. tafkarfanfic I hope you will be somewhere you can watch it by then. I can try to tape it if you want, but I reckon there will be torrents available.

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vicar
Feb. 8th, 2005 08:45 pm (UTC)
I agree and I disagree with your strat, but of course I are not you. It's good to attack your mood with the rational, but there are often times your mood makes no sense. Roll with it. Sometimes there is a reason for the mood, but like a dull ache you haven't figured out the source yet. Sometimes, hell sometimes it feels good to be sad.

If the mood holds you back or impacts your life for a period of time it is important to reign it in, but for short periods you might consider ratinoalizing first to see if you can find a reason for the mood, but even if you can't just letting it be for a while even if it has no real mom. Parent the gloom, it might need a home :)
fenriss
Feb. 9th, 2005 03:18 pm (UTC)
I fear the mood has been impacting my life a bit lately. I gave it some parenting for a while (it's in my nature to parent anything I can get my hands on, really) but it's overstayed it's welcome.

Generally, though, I think that's some good advice you're dishing out there.
boadiccea
Feb. 8th, 2005 09:28 pm (UTC)
Your new icon ROXORS!
fenriss
Feb. 9th, 2005 03:20 pm (UTC)
Hee. Thanks, hon. I'm trying to play with the "wistful color-wash and random swirlies" scool of design right now. Pretty sure I'll get sick of it within a month or so.

Oh, and as soon as I throw off this damnable inability to do anything but sulk in E's lap at night, you are the next icon subject on the slab! Mwahaha! (Hey, I think I feel a little better today :)
tafkarfanfic
Feb. 8th, 2005 09:33 pm (UTC)
YES! That should be GREAT.

BTW, did you watch the Boston Legal tape I sent you? What did you think? Too real?
fenriss
Feb. 9th, 2005 04:06 pm (UTC)
I left you a voicemail about this... I can't seem to find the episode on the tape you sent. There's Angel and Buffy, but no Boston Legal. I shall try and catch an episode at some point.

And, incidentally, that icon is soooo yummy! I take it it's from a recent ep? Is it the exchange with Replicarter? Guh!
fenriss
Feb. 9th, 2005 04:09 pm (UTC)
squee! :)
pastor_saturn
Feb. 8th, 2005 10:33 pm (UTC)
I suddenly came down with the Februaries this morning, then realized it was probably just the Leonard Cohen CD I was listening to.

Which made me wonder: did I choose Leonard Cohen because I already had the Februaries, or did listening to LC give me the Februaries?

Chicken and egg thing.

:)
fenriss
Feb. 9th, 2005 04:11 pm (UTC)
Heh. Ol' Leonard is a February kind of guy, indeed. But so are a lot of my favorite musicians, come to think of it.
pastor_saturn
Feb. 9th, 2005 08:20 pm (UTC)
Mine too. Hee, go figure, right? :)
rionnkelly
Feb. 9th, 2005 05:44 pm (UTC)
Y'know, I was never able to put a real cute, catchy name to the angst that seems to invade my psyche during February. "The Februaries"--I like it.
pastor_saturn
Feb. 9th, 2005 08:23 pm (UTC)
Thanks! (I'm not at all sure it's original, though.) :)
rionnkelly
Feb. 9th, 2005 10:23 pm (UTC)
Original?? Phft! What difference does that make? I take great pride in stealing only from the best ;-)
pastor_saturn
Feb. 9th, 2005 10:43 pm (UTC)
Har! Oh yes, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery! :)
rionnkelly
Feb. 10th, 2005 08:29 pm (UTC)
;-)
lilu22
Feb. 9th, 2005 03:29 am (UTC)
Awesome icon. Hmmm, maybe the Daily Show should be our next ritual. Call me, I'll chear you up! Remember, I can tell you some mad, bad jokes. he, he, he...
fenriss
Feb. 9th, 2005 04:23 pm (UTC)
The trouble with the Daily Show is that it airs at 11 PM, and then again at 7 PM the next day. We could prolly manage the 7 PM one, if you got off work in time... it's tricky. I wish I had Tivo.

I'll call soon. Sorry to be such a stranger. Sigh.
lilu22
Feb. 10th, 2005 12:53 am (UTC)
Cool. Don't mean to be pushy. I'm just really busy at work. So, I keep forgetting to email during the day.
mgoldsmith4
Feb. 9th, 2005 05:42 pm (UTC)
a joke to make my sister smile (hopefully)
The republican says to the democrat, "You know, I reckon I'm about ready for a vacation, only this year I'm gonna do it a little different. The last few years, I took your advice as to where to go. Two years ago you said to go to Hawaii, I went to Hawaii, and Marie got pregnant. Then last year, you told me to go to the Bahamas, I went to the Bahamas, and Marie got pregnant again."
The democrat says, "So what you gonna do different this year?"
The republican says, "This year, I'm takin' Marie with me..."
fenriss
Feb. 9th, 2005 06:07 pm (UTC)
Re: a joke to make my sister smile (hopefully)
Hee! Thanks, hon!

(Hurray! It's my sister. Everyone wave hello :)
rionnkelly
Feb. 9th, 2005 10:25 pm (UTC)
Re: a joke to make my sister smile (hopefully)
::waves::
pastor_saturn
Feb. 9th, 2005 10:43 pm (UTC)
Re: a joke to make my sister smile (hopefully)
Hello sister! *waggles fingers*
lilu22
Feb. 10th, 2005 12:54 am (UTC)
Re: a joke to make my sister smile (hopefully)
Hello! Thanks for sharing the joke.
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